Preparing for Your First Mediation or Custody Evaluation: What Colorado Courts Expect

July 30, 2025

Preparing for Your First Mediation or Custody Evaluation: What Colorado Courts Expect

When facing a child custody matter in Colorado, one of the most critical steps is preparing for your first mediation or custody evaluation. These proceedings can feel overwhelming, but understanding what Colorado courts prioritize can help you feel more confident and present your case effectively. At Peter A Garin Attorney At Law, we provide legal guidance to ensure you’re prepared for each step of the process.


Understanding Mediation in Colorado


Mediation is often the first step in custody disputes. Colorado courts encourage mediation as a way for parents to reach an agreement without going to trial. During mediation:


  • A neutral mediator facilitates discussions about parenting time and decision-making responsibilities.
  • Courts expect parents to approach mediation with a willingness to compromise and prioritize the child’s best interests.
  • Preparation involves bringing proposed parenting plans, schedules, and evidence of your child’s needs.


Successful mediation requires demonstrating your ability to co-parent effectively and your commitment to maintaining a stable environment for your child.


Custody Evaluations: What to Expect


If mediation does not resolve disputes, the court may order a Parental Responsibilities Evaluation (PRE) or Child and Family Investigator (CFI) evaluation. These evaluations assess each parent’s ability to care for the child and provide a safe, nurturing home. Evaluators often consider:


  • Child’s best interests: Emotional, physical, and developmental needs.
  • Parental stability: Housing, employment, and daily routines.
  • History of caregiving: Who has been the primary caregiver and the child’s current living situation.
  • Ability to co-parent: Willingness to encourage a healthy relationship between the child and the other parent.
  • Any safety concerns: Substance abuse, domestic violence, or neglect issues.


Being honest, cooperative, and prepared with documentation—like school records, medical information, and parenting schedules—can make a significant difference in the evaluator’s report to the court.


Preparing for Success


To prepare for mediation or custody evaluations:


  1. Document everything: Keep detailed records of your involvement in your child’s life.
  2. Stay child-focused: Courts prioritize your child’s well-being over parental disputes.
  3. Be professional and cooperative: Whether with mediators, evaluators, or the other parent, a calm demeanor reflects positively.
  4. Seek legal guidance: An experienced family law attorney can help you organize your materials and represent your interests effectively.


At Peter A Garin Attorney At Law, we help Colorado parents navigate custody processes with confidence, ensuring their parental rights and their child’s well-being are protected.

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